Immediate danger: call your local emergency number or go to the nearest emergency department now. Find a local crisis service.

Urgent and ongoing support

Get Mental Health Help

You do not need a perfect explanation before asking for help. Start with the level of support the situation needs now, then take one next step that is available where you are.

  1. 01
    Immediate danger

    Call the local emergency number or go to the nearest emergency department now.

  2. 02
    Urgent distress

    Contact a local crisis service or use a reviewed directory to find one in your country.

  3. 03
    Ongoing support

    A doctor, qualified mental-health professional, or local service can help you explore the next step.

Find crisis support where you are

If it is urgent but not an immediate emergency

You may feel unable to cope, frightened by your thoughts, intensely distressed, or worried that the situation is becoming less safe without believing that danger is immediate. That is still a valid reason to seek urgent support.

Contact a local crisis line, urgent mental-health service, healthcare provider, or trusted person who can stay with you and help reach the appropriate service. If the risk changes or you become unable to stay safe, use emergency services.

  • Say the direct thing first“I am not feeling safe” or “I am worried I may hurt myself” gives the other person important information.
  • Ask for practical helpYou can ask somebody to sit with you, make a call, travel with you, or help explain what is happening.
  • Keep trying another routeIf one service is unavailable or does not meet the need, try another official local option or emergency care.

Finding ongoing professional support

For concerns that are affecting mood, sleep, relationships, work, study, self-care, substance use, or day-to-day functioning, a qualified professional can help explore what is happening and what kind of support may fit.

Depending on the local health system, a starting point may be a primary-care doctor, licensed mental-health professional, community mental-health service, school or university support service, workplace assistance programme, or a trusted local organisation that provides referrals.

  • Check qualificationsLook for the licence, registration, professional body, or regulated title used where you live.
  • Ask about fitYou can ask about experience with the concern, therapeutic approach, accessibility, language, cost, confidentiality, and what happens in a first appointment.
  • Use local directories carefullyConfirm that listings are current and understand whether placement is verified, paid, or self-reported.

How to start the conversation

You do not need the right diagnosis, the whole history, or polished language. A short description of what is happening and how it is affecting life is enough to begin.

  • “I have been struggling and I need help finding the right support.”A direct first sentence can make the purpose of the conversation clear.
  • “This has been affecting my sleep, work, relationships, or ability to care for myself.”Concrete impact can help another person understand urgency and scope.
  • “I am worried about my safety.”Say this plainly if it is true so that the response can match the level of risk.
  • “Can you help me make the call or stay with me while I ask?”It is reasonable to ask for support with the practical first step.

Preparing for an appointment

If writing things down feels useful, bring a short note. It can include when the concern began, how often it happens, what makes it better or worse, how daily life is affected, relevant health conditions or medicines, and any immediate safety worries.

You may also bring a trusted person if the service allows it. You can ask the professional to explain unfamiliar terms, repeat an option, write down next steps, or discuss access needs. If the fit is poor, it is reasonable to ask what other options exist.

If you are worried about someone else

Take concerns about immediate safety seriously. If it is safe for you to do so, ask directly whether the person is thinking about suicide, listen without judgement, and involve emergency or crisis support if they cannot stay safe. Asking clearly does not require you to act as a therapist.

Do not put yourself in danger, physically intervene, or remain alone with someone who is threatening serious harm to you or another person. Move to safety and contact emergency services when there is an immediate threat.

For non-emergency concerns, describe what you have noticed, make space for the person to answer, and offer one practical form of help. You can make a call together, help find a service, provide transport, or stay present while they contact somebody qualified.

What Minds Vary can and cannot provide

Minds Vary can offer general educational information and language that may help a conversation begin. It cannot assess risk, respond to emergencies, provide a diagnosis, choose a treatment, prescribe medication, or offer one-to-one crisis support.

Third-party services have their own eligibility, privacy, confidentiality, safeguarding, and emergency procedures. Read the service's current information where possible. Minds Vary does not currently have a monitored channel for reporting an outdated link, so verify important details on the service website before relying on them.